The Oasis

You did all seven days.

Most people don't. They mean to, life happens, the emails go unread. You didn't — and that says something true about you.

Here's the part I actually want to say.

Those seven days were about turning a little of your love back toward you. They worked because you showed up. But they were the door, not the room.

The room is a four-week class on bell hooks' All About Love — the book that argues most of us were never taught what love is, only handed a version of it and told to be grateful. Her claim that stopped me: self-love isn't the reward for getting your life together. It's the foundation you build it on. Four Thursdays. Forty-five minutes. Live, with me, in a room of women who did what you just did.

— Ray

Where this goes
All About Love · live · 4 weeks

What we cover

Week 1What love actually is. hooks' definition — love as something you do, not something that happens to you — and why that changes everything you've been calling love.
Week 2The version you were handed. Where your idea of love came from, what it cost you, and which parts you get to keep.
Week 3Self-love as the foundation. Her argument that you cannot give what you were never given — and what it looks like to start.
Week 4Monday. What changes in your actual week. One practice, chosen by you, that you'll still be doing in March.

Recorded if you miss one. Small enough that I know your name.

What you're getting
All About Love — 4 live sessions with Ray$199
BonusA full year of The OasisKara · all five Deep Dives, including yours · all 129 tracks · the whole system$499
BonusYour seven days, foreverEvery recording, every entry. Come back whenever you need them.yours
Total value$698
$698$99once
Charter rate — you finished, so it's yours

Why $99. The year alone is $499 for everyone who didn't do the seven days. You did. That's the whole qualification, and it's why this price exists for you and not for them. In 30 days it goes back to $499 — for you too.

Charter rate open for 30 days from the day you finished. After that, it's $499.
Take my seat — $99 →
Come to week one. If it isn't for you, say so and I'll refund the whole thing. No form, no reason needed. You keep the recordings.

One payment. Not a subscription — no card kept on file. I'll ask you again next year rather than charging you.

Not yet — take me back